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“Librarian’s Shelf” by Robert Trautwein |
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"Retirement Preparedness"
Faced with the prospect of retiring in three to six years,
I am questioning if it is possible to reinvent myself
after retirement. How do I go from being who I am now to
being the person I will be when I retire? To put it
another way, “How can I avoid being less than I currently
am?” Maybe the mid-life crisis has finally caught up with
me!
Perhaps I need a therapist! To help me sort through these
issues, I have read several books at the library which
address some of my concerns. James Audrey’s “The Spirit
of Retirement, Creating a Life of Meaning and Personal
Growth” (2002) is a book that every soon-to-be retiree
should read. The author uses examples from other peoples’
lives to illustrate his points. He discusses how the
retirement years are “your years,” which you have earned
and for which you have been greatly anticipating. And,
since these retirement years will not stretch on forever,
you should actively use that time for self-fulfillment.
Now, that’s a tricky word, “self-fulfillment.” It always
makes me feel guilty. But Autry says that
self-fulfillment can come in many different ways and in
combinations of different actions. Through his examples
he shows how some people become fulfilled by rediscovering
their roots. Others reinvigorate friendships. Some give
themselves to causes or services to find fulfillment.
In his book, “The Third Act, Reinventing Yourself After
Retirement,” (2002) author Edgar Bonfman discusses how the
“third act” can be the best part of our lives. He
challenges retirees not to squander what could be their
most fulfilling years. We can reinvent ourselves by
learning new skills, taking classes in a field of
interest, attending Elderhostel programs, etc. We can
discover new aspects of ourselves by going on a
three-month pilgrimage from Paris to Santiago de
Compostelo, Spain, walking the Appalachian Trail, sailing
around the world in freighters, etc. We can give back
through volunteerism to our church, our community, our
nation, the world. Whatever path we take to fulfillment,
Bronfman exhorts us to follow our hearts and enjoy the
journey.
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